We have all felt this overwhelming sense of sadness and cried with a broken heart many times in our lives. Often we ask ourselves questions beyond our capable understanding about how life can be so unfair and hurt us so deeply. We find solitude in the moments of emotional grief and that is when the comfort comes with a force of love so grand that it saves us from the torment of our own thoughts and sadness.
This kind of sadness can come from when we lose a loved one as they pass away or from when we feel the connection is gone with a person in our life that for whatever reasons no longer mutually connect.
How do we go through these stages of grief and loss? How can we move on and hold onto the memories while having a deep faith in something. My answer is LOVE.
Love is so grand that it will solve all of our deepest hurts and give us that comfort that we truly need to heal and forgive.
It is when our ego is so attached to the outcome in a relationship that we misunderstand the bigger picture in life. The wholeness of life and the oneness of life. We are all from a source of LOVE. This Universal Love is in everything.
I believe we truly don’t want to hurt people in our lives. We can feel pain, sadness and a huge sense of overwhelming thoughts with our own beliefs and judgements but with the bigger picture, we all want to be loved and feel love too.
The impact that another has in our lives is a strong memory that shapes us and forms patterns of behaviors in daily routines. We can look beyond our pain and go within to find that comfort that is always there helping us and giving us strength.
With so many people living on Earth, in so many different cultures, traditions and beliefs it is no wonder that we all feel unique isolated and different from one another. Yet we are all born from the Universal source of Love. This love is the light of the Universe.
Another great song of comfort and love from Celine Dion & Andrea Bocelli called “The Prayer.”
We may not understand it now but we don’t really need to figure out all the answers, do we? We just need to remember that we are loved, we are love itself and that we are one with that love too. There is a bigger plan in this cosmos of existence. We may change forms from the physical to the non-physical but we are still that light of love. We have allies across the stars helping us with our daily existence on Earth.
What is the most important lesson is to live each day with love in your heart.
You may not be pleasing everyone around you but you will feel good within yourself as you know you trust, believe and have a great faith that it is all for a reason.
This month of December is something difficult as well as magical. It brings up many things we need to process and heal with and as it does we release and shed our layers of hurt, one by one. It is an individual journey but we are sharing that journey with helpers along the way.
This is the moment to be thankful for what you have right now in your life and to hold onto that gratitude with love and appreciation. When it comes right down to the last breath we have on Earth, it is all about how much we loved and felt love. This is why we are living, to learn to love each other in all circumstances of life and that entails many levels of growth and internal inspection of our own self worth.
Love yourself more today and give yourself the love that you need for it is never-ending and ever-lasting. Blessings of love from my heart to yours.
Much love, Jennifer